Mind Games

ok so i think i play mind games with myself way too much. i'll start thinking one thing and then my mind will be set....until i realize later that there was no way any of that could have happened. so then your all bummed out that you even let your self think that in the first place. but the one thing that i always turn back to is dream big...or set your goals high. i heard a really good speaker yesterday, his name is mike max. one thing that stuck out in my mind is he said, "if you want to make it big, you have to be scared to fail." how true is that. no matter who you are and what you do, your not going to be able to make it there with out a few bumps in the road. so going back to what i was talking about....am i playing mind games with myself or am i just dreaming big and trying to make it somewhere?