life in the past

have you ever noticed that that most of the time that you get mad.....it's because of somthing that has already happened. the way i look at things.......why get mad over it...it's done and over with. you have no reason to be mad now for somthing that has already happened. ya, i know.....speak for your self, but this one i have a really hard time on too. it's really hard to just drop things like it was nothing. granted guys can do it better than girls, but do they really not think about it anymore. i mean come on we are all human. they have to, right?